How do you Motivate yourself everyday?

By Somali K Chakrabarti

 

People often say that motivation doesn’t last. Well, neither does bathing – that’s why we recommend it daily.” – Zig Ziglar

This quote by Zig Ziglar sounds funny for sure, but, hey read it again and you’ll not only find yourself agreeing with it, but may also follow up with the question ‘How do we motivate ourselves?

Motivation

External factors such as recognition or rewards are a great source of motivation, but unfortunately we cannot always depend upon external triggers to find motivation. As a matter of fact, we have to face setbacks, deal with rejections, and yet we need to keep going.

So, how do we motivate ourselves in the absence of external triggers?

Needless to say that we need to find motivation within. That being said, it is not so easy to train our minds to seek motivation; for we need to spend time conditioning ourselves.

“It is not so easy to find happiness with ourselves and it is not possible to find it elsewhere” ~ Anais Nin    [Tweet this]

Here are a few ways for developing a mind-set that allows you to rewire your brain to seek motivation within:

 

1. Develop a To-Be Vision

While it is not possible for us to have a definite picture of how the future would shape up, or where we would be say 3 – 5 years down the line, yet, we all have our idea of a best life, depending upon what we want from life and our potential to achieve that.

The concept of a To-Be vision is like a compass that sets the direction for your choices and actions that lead you towards your idea of a best life. Doing something every day that takes you nearer to your To-Be vision sends affirmative signals to the brain.

Footprint Motivation

You can begin by deliberating upon questions such as:

  • What is my idea of an ideal day? How sustainable it is?
  • What do I foresee myself doing in the next 3, 5 or 10 years?
  • What do I value most in life?
  • What would I hate losing?
  • What footprints will I like to leave behind?

Even, without a To-Be vision, doing something that helps us to grow intellectually, emotionally, or spiritually adds on to our confidence and serves as a means of self-reinforcement.

 

2. Know your strengths 

Making a list of your strengths that you have developed from all your previous roles, makes you conscious of them and gives you the confidence that while you may not have all the answers but you’ll be able to find them by putting your strengths to use.

Your previous successes convince your brain that you are capable of doing great things and that the probability of great things coming in future is very likely.

“Nothing can dim the light which shines from within ~ Maya Angelou [Tweet this]

Inner strength

 

3. Re-frame your self talk

This is not the same as denying the problems, but looking at them as opportunities or challenges to be overcome.

“Talk to yourself at least once in a Day. Otherwise you may miss a meeting with an EXCELLENT person in this World.’ ~ Swami Vivekananda

Self talk

 

Unlike birds that are powered by their sense of direction (Compass), we need to rewire our brain to find and set our direction, and move towards it.

Finally, it pays to remember that

“Motivation will almost always beat mere talent.” ~ Norman Ralph Augustine

How do you find your motivation?

 

 

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92 thoughts on “How do you Motivate yourself everyday?

  • August 26, 2015 at 7:51 am
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    Thank you for the motivation Somali. Best is Swami Vivekananada’s quote about talking with oneself.

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  • August 26, 2015 at 8:39 am
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    Great post👍🌻❤️

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  • August 26, 2015 at 11:29 am
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    great post… very inspiring and motivational one… the quotes are very motivating… 🙂

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  • August 26, 2015 at 11:41 am
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    brilliant one there somali! jeez u caught me there with the first quote itself! 😀 itself..

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  • August 26, 2015 at 11:52 am
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    An enlightening post on motivation with excellent quotes on the subject .

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  • August 26, 2015 at 12:06 pm
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    I like this quote by Zig Ziglar a lot. It really made me refect on the idea of motivating oneself daily.
    And the supporting ideas you shared were really good.
    Happy blogging!

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  • August 26, 2015 at 12:12 pm
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    Wow Somali.. Very motivating… Very well written.. External triggers are hard to come nowadays, so internal triggers are the best way to motivate ourselves. Just to do what we love without any second thought. And the quotes are very inspiring..

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  • August 26, 2015 at 12:47 pm
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    Very inspiring post! Love it! It’s good to take it step by step, and make our way towards what we want to achieve. Thanks for sharing!

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  • August 26, 2015 at 7:39 am
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    Good one 🙂 We do need such reminders!

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  • August 26, 2015 at 4:24 pm
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    great post Somali ji , very inspiring and motivational one. But I mentioned it in other way , it is lubrication of my mind and I always said my students that if you want to be success you should open your mind windows slowly slowly . and I think to motivate our self is to do the things you like most !!

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        • August 26, 2015 at 11:27 pm
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          Hahaha 🙂 I’m just kidding lol 😛 but seriously my motivation I guess is my family since they inspire me 🙂

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          • August 26, 2015 at 11:34 pm
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            Say if you have to travel alone then? Asking you because I faced severe lack of motivation when I had to travel for work for long periods and stay away from my family.

          • August 26, 2015 at 11:38 pm
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            Yes I understand that situation that is why I am a work at home Mom 🙂 But I guess reading inspirational quotes and staying connected with love ones and thinking that you are doing that for your family helps us be motivated. It is such a drag still I think.

    • August 27, 2015 at 7:38 am
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      Thank you Yogiji..its lke when we do things that enrich us or help you to develop in some way, we find intrinsic motivation.

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  • August 26, 2015 at 5:44 pm
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    That’s an inspiring post and many times we need such reminders. Thanks for sharing!

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  • August 26, 2015 at 12:55 pm
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    Wow!
    A very encouraging post.
    The quotes are just awesome! 😊

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  • August 26, 2015 at 7:53 pm
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    The self talk one. I guess that’s more effective. 🙂 We sure need daily motivation. May be its the environment and we get diluted very quick.

    Nice post! 🙂

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  • August 26, 2015 at 6:45 pm
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    Very well written. A life without a purpose is meaningless.

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  • August 27, 2015 at 1:53 am
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    Glad that i already follow this advice of finding motivation within myself.

    I have always believed that one can find inspiration from outside, but after that motivation to proceed further has to be from within 🙂

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    • August 27, 2015 at 7:29 am
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      True Alok..we can look at external triggers for inspiration but the onus to motivate ourselves lies with us. Thank you.

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  • August 27, 2015 at 8:20 am
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    Brilliant points here. Self-talk and knowing one’s forte help a person to find the required spark within. External motivation, as you’ve said, is hard to find sometimes and, it’s our duty to make ourselves moving. Motivation beats mere talent- I loved this quote for it is absolutely true! I’ve seen such instances in my life.

    You’ve really made it a nice and inspirational post by using the three-in-one method 😀

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    • August 27, 2015 at 8:33 am
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      Thank you Maniparna. True its our own responsibility to keep ourselves motivated to get moving . If we don’t, how can we expect others to motivate us on a regular basis?
      3 – in 1 method – that’s a nice way of putting it. 🙂

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  • August 27, 2015 at 10:07 am
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    Your words motivate us for sure.. 🙂

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  • August 27, 2015 at 12:14 pm
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    Excellent motivating posts. I hope you interact with students, they will definitely benefit.

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    • August 28, 2015 at 8:27 am
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      Thank you Indrani. These apply in the corporate world too particularly when recognition is hard to come by. 🙂

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  • August 27, 2015 at 1:40 pm
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    Very motivational! Something we desperately need to survive in this competitional age. Thanks a lot, Somali!

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    • August 28, 2015 at 8:25 am
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      Thank you Rakesh. Just as we need to keep replenishing our energy levels from time to time, the same holds good for motivation as well. Have a great day.

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  • August 27, 2015 at 6:38 pm
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    Great reading!
    You have touched the raw nerve… how does one motivate oneself
    As a matter of fact, I was writing something in the similar lines and maybe I will complete that soon.

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  • August 27, 2015 at 7:05 pm
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    it’s one of my fav quotes!! 🙂

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  • August 27, 2015 at 7:51 pm
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    I believe in self-motivation, training yourself despite all those modern distractions and developing concentration is the key to remain motivated. Reading good literature also helps. Since we do all good things under compulsion, redefine your goals and set your priorities. Then follow them religiously. A day comes when others start taking inspiration from your motivated self.

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    • August 28, 2015 at 8:22 am
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      Thank you Balroop. Absolutely true that nothing can beat a person who trains himself/herself to remain motivated under taxing conditions.

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  • August 27, 2015 at 9:59 pm
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    Intrinsic motivation works better. But to fuel that motivation one does need some external TLC too. Some days when you are feeling down, it is your loved ones who give you a boost and get you going. Other days, you may just be feeling on top of the world. It is important to set goals and also keep re-aligning them.

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    • August 28, 2015 at 8:16 am
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      True Rachna. When external triggers aw available, of course they fuel motivation, but even in absence of external triggers, it becomes all the more necessary that we find ways to motivate ourselves to keep going.

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  • August 27, 2015 at 10:55 pm
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    in this taxing life, it gets so difficult to stay motivated and sometimes it gets difficult to come back on the same happy and energetic side of ownself, this article is so helpful

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    • August 28, 2015 at 8:12 am
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      Yes it does Pooja and so we need to keep replenishing our motivation levels from time to time . Thank you so much for stopping by. 🙂

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  • August 27, 2015 at 11:16 pm
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    Nice post Somali. I love that quote by Zig Zaglar. Both internal and external motivation play a long and strong role in shaping a person and his internal strength. The internal motivation provides a great sense of completion while the external one provides a great surge of energy for immediate action. The balance between the two promises an extraordinary life in the making.

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    • August 28, 2015 at 8:09 am
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      Thanks Vinay. Yes its the best when there are external morivators in addition to the internal ones. However even in absence of external motivation if one remains motivated, nothing can beat it. 🙂

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  • August 28, 2015 at 8:16 am
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    Very valid points, neatly and succinctly explained. I have always found this specific quote about talking to oneself by Vivekananda, extremely relevant esp to the modern age.

    I was in fact discussing today with a colleague that for thousands of years Indic thought has stressed the need to look within ourselves for answers. When we strip away everything only That one truth remains, and that one truth is the Source of Infinite motivation.

    Unfortunately modern day focus is external – ostentatious display of wealth, belligerence when it comes to displaying one’s faith externally with facial markers or color coded cloths and caps etc etc.

    All this is driving us farther and farther away from discovering our true self and talking to it. Great souls like Shankaracharya, Ramakrishna, Vivekananda had discovered through deep introspection the true nature of Self, the import of “aham brahmasmi” and “tat tvam asi”. That’s why they were such great motivators and within themselves they discovered an unending fountain of motivation.

    Great post! Makes one think.

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    • August 28, 2015 at 8:42 am
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      Thanks for this wonderful insight Subhodeep. We average humans need a social fabric for support, so while it may be natural to find external morivators, however even in absence of external morivators we need to seek motivation internally to be truly resilient.

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    • August 28, 2015 at 9:24 am
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      Thank you Lata. You’re so right. A sense of responsibility gives meaning and purpose to life and keeps us going. That’s why perhaps as soon as a major responsibility is discharged, we often sense a vacuum till we develop some other sense of responsibility or engage ourselves in a hobby.

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  • August 28, 2015 at 11:05 am
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    The 3 Points are the right Points to be remembered.. An Inspiring Post, Somali.. Thanks for brining it out in time!

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  • August 28, 2015 at 5:53 am
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    Good post. To motivate myself I visualize the outcome of what I want to happen and then visualize what would happen if I don’t do anything. That right there will give me enough motivation to shoot for the stars.

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    • August 28, 2015 at 7:41 pm
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      So the repercussion of not getting there motivates you to work towards the outcome. That’s an intrinsic motivator. Thank you.

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  • August 28, 2015 at 5:26 pm
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    These days my motivation comes from my sense of duty.What is my role in life,how i want to evolve,what needs to change–these are a few of the questions which motivate me .

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    • August 28, 2015 at 7:50 pm
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      Thanks Indu. Sense of responsibility is an intrinsic motivator that inspires you/us to discharge the responsibilities. May be that is the reason why after a major responsibility gets done, some sort of a vacuum comes in till we again involve ourselves in something else.

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